"Think of journaling as baltering with pen in hand." ~ Terry Hershey

Sunday, March 30, 2025

In the Eye of the Beholder


Next to my bed is a photo of my family from before I was born. But, being older than this little boy, I like it because it reminds me that there was life before me, and so, there will be life after me. Life goes on. We might not, but others will, and if we've done our time right here on earth, there will be ones who mourn us, love us, and remember us. 

And that is enough.


We See Life



Thursday, March 27, 2025

One Final

Considering New Yorker this past week was the Style and Design edition, I am amazed at how much I enjoyed it. The last article is a critique on a new book on an editor of magazines, Graydon Carter, a man I have, of course, never heard of. But the article, a wandering amidst his life and work, was a treat giving me a view into the world of magazines during the time of my youth, right up to now, my reading of NYer.











The first bit is exactly how I talk about so many of my readings. And the last, coming at the end, where, so often, New Yorker hits their marks spot on, hits its mark on the 'golden age' and what, sadly,  could come to pass. 











An edition finished, and yet another in the box today. Love my morning reading!


Snippet

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

And More

I read New Yorker from cover to cover (except for the fiction). Whether reporting or reviewing, it's all great writing. And so, still from the latest edition, come two more. 






The first, a review of a book on gossiping. It was the positives of gossip that most interested me, probably since any adult should, at least hopefully, understand the pitfalls and horrors of the negatives. How we gossip, who we gossip to and how we use that gossip matters. Over the years I have become ever more careful. It can be spiteful and harmful.







The second, on a new novel, Perfection, long listed for the Booker Prize, is probably a bit above me. Who knows if I'll read it; short on action, it might not be for me, but the analogy at the end is spot on. Decades ago I met someone who, only after our first night did I realize what a wonderful person and friend they would become. I've never forgotten that, and here was this to remind me of that.



 Snippets 

Sunday, March 23, 2025

Enjoying

My morning reading of New Yorker gifts me, always, new knowledge in wonderful reading. Yesterday was no exception.




First, it was an article on a singer that, probably, anyone younger than me has heard of, Lucy Dacus and a band she's made a record with. And, surprisingly, if I remember correctly (and that's a big if), I've seen one of the bandmates at festivals, Phoebe Bridgers, so felt pretty cool and with it (wink, wink). But, it was the lyrics highlighted in the article that I connected to.



In the second article, it was about a woman, Ruth Stout, long gone but still getting her due for her no-work gardening. But, much like New Yorker, it wasn't just about gardening. No, most of the telling was on Stout's life, and her brother's. Having lived from 1884 to 1980, she led an amazing and event-filled life. Stout was a woman I would have loved to meet. Reminding me of my own mother, I smiled through much of it, and loved the ending.








There was one other bit I enjoyed. In 1919, after an affair ended, Stout wrote a poem, not as nice as the lyics from Dacus, but still wonderful to read. I laughed and continued reading, only to find out that as life has a way of doing, it comes back at us. Stout and the man who broke it off, came together again to live out their lives. 


Love comes; we just don't always know how or when or for how long.



Snippets

Friday, March 21, 2025

If I Were an Old F*rt

 








I'd agree. You know the kind, the ones who say, "Back in my day..." and believe it. 



But I'm Not and I Don't.

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

In the Spring

 








Like a Christmas tree in December bringing us memories of our childhood



I Remember

Thursday, March 13, 2025

Off and On the Trail

Another wonderful women's week was had and but a memory now. Eight women talking, laughing and enjoying our time together. Wonderful!

Off the Trail







 ...it was cards and laughter at night while enjoying our various drinks. For me, it was a new foray into Jameson for my after dinner drink....before a couple more beers. In the mornings and any other time we wanted, we had three jigsaw puzzles to work on and finish. One day, a day that could have been/should have been a disaster of various plannings (skating on the canal, museum visit, and lunch), turned into, instead, a day of laughter, with wind and cold and parking fiascos. Only one made it skating and two to the museum, but all of us had fun. We women know how to laugh for sure.


On the Trail









...I was able to have skiing one-on one-with three different ladies, lucky me, and then a solo ski and walk also. Focusing on the ski, I found notable buildings and the serenity of the trail, and then, what a treat, hockey!









Looking out at the river, I saw a pick-up game. I stopped and watched. I'm sure there are parts of the USA that still has people outside enjoying the cold, but for me, I don't see it that often. It was a sight for sore eyes. 











My walk took me much farther out than I thought, but I so wanted the old electric pole I'd seen on one of my other one-on ones. Finding it (can you see it? Appreciate it?), I was able to also take a photo of found artwork, a small but wonderful looking cottage/boathouse, and the markers that explained how much I'd walked, answer being, a lot! Then, to end my walk, a snow gnome. Walking alone in the woods at twilight was magical. 

The week was especially good because there had been a few who'd questioned their ability to come and yet, all made it. Perfect!


Ottawa

Wednesday, March 12, 2025

You Tell Me








The GOP has fallen in line, for now. If they ever need to stand independently, will they, though? That is the question. They're in power but have abdicated all said power to Trump and Musk. 

Not that the democrats have found their footing either. Wringing their hands and mulling the past still, most can't stand and speak their minds. And that's all they should be doing: standing for what's right and highlighting what's wrong while giving no help to the other side, unless they are given their due. 

Take the budget vote this week. Should the democrats help to pass it? If they're not given some real  concessions, no they shouldn't. They need to let the chips fall where they fall, and then remind all that the GOP was in charge, often and emphatically.


Who's in Charge?

Tuesday, March 11, 2025

The State of the State








Last week I subbed for a high school government teacher, a wonderful educator. Unfortunately, she had me watch the State of the Union Speech given by Voldemort, oh, I mean, the president. I had specifically not watched it (I just don't have the stomach for him), and I was worried that I wasn't competent to be in charge of such a volatile subject with students. The teacher helping me to set up told me, though, that the fans of the president were, for the most, part pretty intimidated in speaking out. 

While I believe people are misguided at best and willfully ignorant or worse at worst for believing in the man and his minions, I felt badly for those students. My empathy beat my politics. 









But, isn't it funny, then, when this came to me from my relative. I felt badly while one of the minions feels nothing but contempt.




Today and Yesterday


Monday, March 10, 2025

The Changing of the













On Saturday, the day we went to Daylight Saving Time, I decided to switch. It was time. Spring was in the air, at least in my airspace... and door space. Winter was out. Here's hoping it's true.








This morning, while dark, was another view of spring: a windless, quiet, clear morning. 



Shoes